So many demands are placed on me. As long as I can remember, over and over again. Maybe I thought from time to time that maybe I did not want that, that I really wanted to go another way, but there were the people I loved, to whom I confided, and whom I believed when they told me they would know what’s good for me, they would know how life goes and I do not. They know me better than I do myself, and they had the best intentions. Safe and warm, I should be bedded, like a baby, so I do not bump into any edge and I get no bruises. They wanted to spare us pain and sorrow and rejection, wanted to wrap up in their love and care. And it is good to know that you are well protected. But it is not good to be able to move in the shelter, and my heart did not keep still.
It coveted the guardianship and the care, coveted, so that I either had to
follow it or tame it, silence it, with an iron band that I laid to deny my own
desires, to my own dreams tame to bury one’s own hopes. Because maybe they are
right, all those who are in the midst of life, all those who already have so
much more experience. And the uncertainty about my own abilities, my own
talents, made me close the iron tie with a big lock, willing to keep it
forever. Rest and well-trodden paths, the already familiar, the path that is
leveled and has no unpleasant surprises. I wanted to go. It was paved and affixed,
so he promised safety. I wanted to go, really wanted it. Of course, for my
sake, too, because there is something to be sure about this security, but
probably more to those who have gone to so much trouble to care for and love
me. I understood and did not want to offend anyone. At some point, when the
time of storm and urge in my life would be over, then my heart would finally
settle down.
“It’s growing up,” I was told,
“that’s quite normal,” but if I would be in real, real life, with all
its demands and problems and worries, then yes, I would be glad that I would
have chosen a path with safety and reliability, and had not embarked on any
experiments that only lead to the aberration. At least no one can predict where
it will lead. Of course, it could be the fulfillment, but how many believed it
and eventually perished, perishing on the trials and tribulations of the
undisputed path, the knees bloody and head broken because they absolutely
wanted to go with it through the wall.
I let myself be told, and it scared me. There was
no confidence and no belief that things could be different, that there was a
possibility. It was not bad, it was often very good too. So much reassurance
and so much familiar. Always the same way, from the cradle to the grave. A
wonderful thing for who it is. It could be that easy. To know exactly what to
do or to leave. Knowing exactly, always knowing everything in advance. This
protects against wounds and pain. If you fit in and toe the line, then you cannot
get lost either. Then people meet you with benevolence. It is reassuring to be
in the midst of the crowd and to be able to think that if I fall over, if I
fall over anyway, then I will be held. It’s reassuring to know how to take a
picture in the showcase. From time to time it is dusted, and the iron belt was
stuck, but my heart did not want to rest, at first not even then, when I was in
the real, real life.
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